Ex-SeeYouSpaceCowboy Singer Addresses Abuse Allegations

Former SeeYouSpaceCowboy vocalist Connie Sgarbossa has now addressed some troubling accusations that had been leaked on-line over this previous week that appeared to insinuate that she was concerned in an abusive relationship.

The remarks about Sgarbossa had been made in a non-public chat by her former long-term companion however had been display shotted by a follower and later shared publicly. A number of the feedback detailed allegations of troubling habits by the singer, however had been later walked again by Sgarbossa’s ex earlier than they had been ultimately taken off social media. However the display caps appeared on Reddit for a interval as properly earlier than the one that posted them eliminated them.

Throughout the mentioned discussions, there have been allegations levied towards the singer, nevertheless it appeared that each events had talked issues via with the statements coming after Sgarbossa shared a submit promising that official feedback on what had been shared can be forthcoming.

“I’ve been speaking with my ex for the previous couple days. There was rather a lot happening and issues that had been taken from a non-public account have been unfold. There have been exaggerations because of the warmth of the second that had been written. I’ll Have a press release from her and I quickly,” shared the vocalist in a since deleted social post on Could 26 that additionally included a number of the display shotted dialogue within the submit’s picture.

Given Sgarbossa’s exit from SeeYouSpaceCowboy appeared to return along with her taking a stance towards associating with acts that had confronted abuse allegations, the allegations made by her ex towards the musician positively drew a robust response on Reddit and social media.

What Connie Sgarbossa + Her Ex Mentioned in Their Statements

On Saturday (Could 31), Sgarbossa returned to social media. As promised, there have been joint statements authorised by the singer’s ex.

The first posting addressed the personal dialog changing into public with the singer’s ex stating, “i by chance cancelled my ex from her scene in story posts i made on a non-public, private account of mine which was not my intention … for years i’ve posted various issues on my personal, private account about my ex and nobody has ever screenshotted / shared it, and few reached out to me privately so i did truthfully assume i used to be venting / expressing my story to the identical followers who by no means shared my screenshots.”

“i truthfully was shocked, anxious and mentally drained when i noticed the (now deleted) very fast momentum gaining tweet, one of many (now deleted) reddit threads, together with the present reddit + twitter threads & 3 on-line publications. i’m an individual with actual emotions. i’m completely no totally different than anybody who follows me aside from i used to be with somebody who had a following and sadly that alone made it so individuals thought it was okay to run with my private story from my account that has been completely personal for years and do no matter they wished with it to the purpose it’s apparently now public and folks can do what they need with it,” they added.

“my ex can also be an individual with actual emotions, and he or she misplaced completely the whole lot and is seeing first hand what she constructed for 15 years, the group she liked / one which she contributed closely to, the artwork she has executed, her music profession at the moment + something sooner or later, to the easy issues of even simply attending a present – crumble beneath her at fast pace,” they continued. “i’m not attempting to achieve sympathy in any respect, neither is my ex, however we’ve been speaking these previous few days about the whole lot and that is what i’ve realized & seen in only a few days that i want individuals may perceive. i made a mistake in posting that and never leaving it in my private life, fully offline. i take full accountability for that.”

Connie’s ex then detailed the character of their “unhealthy relationship” and added that whereas Sgarbossa does have issues to handle, the singer would not need to have her life ruined over the posts. In addition they revealed that Sgarbossa “took accountability with me for the whole lot addressed,” including, “i’ve forgiven her as an individual as a result of the accountability for as soon as was real and never blamed on something however herself. if i can forgive her, i don’t see why you guys can’t.”

They concluded, “we’re selecting to proceed to help one another in each other’s journeys regardless of our breakup and downfall, as a result of we understand each other isn’t excellent. we additionally understand it’s more healthy, a minimum of for us, to only not harbor anger & resentment particularly if we’re each keen to speak to at least one one other about what occurred. we additionally would each similar to to return to our separate, boring lives and never must hold rehashing this.”

Sgarbossa later added that her ex’s assertion was shared on her social media account as a result of she did not have a private account on X and wished to maintain her Instagram personal. The complete assertion could be learn within the X social media submit beneath.

As for Sgarbossa, the previous SeeYouSpaceCowboy singer added that her statement was also approved by her ex.

“Me and my ex have taken the previous couple days to actually discuss via the whole lot we’ve gone via in our relationship. I’ve taken accountability to her privately for the issues I owe her and we’ve labored via it privately as a result of she doesn’t need this to be aired out in public. This course of is one thing between me and her,” mentioned the singer.

“I’ve had a really public wrestle [with] substances and psychological well being, I’ve executed a variety of work and gotten clear off many issues since me and this particular person had been collectively and so they have seen that, tho I do nonetheless have work to do on myself and plan to proceed that work via my therapist and psyche and sustaining my treatment,” Sgarbossa added.

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“Folks in my previous and private life have deserved a greater model of me, and that journey of enchancment is one which I do know by no means stops and I’m going to proceed that journey for myself and for the individuals I’ve in my life. I do know that this submit is coming many days after this all started, however me and her wished to actually ensure that we talked via the whole lot collectively earlier than we every addressed this for a ultimate time publicly,” the vocalist continued.

Sgarbossa concluded, “I do know there was some criticism that me and her have been speaking about this collectively and about my poorly thought out previous submit. I had her permission to submit that screenshot as one thing within the meantime whereas we labored via issues, however my wording was poor and never thought out. With regard to us going via this course of collectively and having precise conversations about our relationship, we each really feel like the perfect path to truly having accountability was for the 2 of us to have these conversations collectively slightly than each of us simply strolling away or persevering with to have a public falling out with the allegations that she by no means wished to be public.”

Connie Sgarbossa’s Exit From SeeYouSpaceCowboy

Connie Sgarbossa’s tenure with SeeYouSpaceCowboy got here to an finish earlier this 12 months when the vocalist seemingly took a stance on a problematic tour pairing.

The band was getting known as out on social media after signing on to play with Dance Gavin Dance after having beforehand eliminated the band Roman Candle from one among their excursions over their dealing with of a home abuse allegation. As Dance Gavin Dance had continued to tour with singer Tillian Pearson for a interval after sexual abuse allegations the vocalist had been made, followers considered this as a problematic tour for the group to take though Pearson was not with the group.

Seeing a number of the backlash on social media, Sgarbossa responded, “Imagine me, there is no such thing as a a part of me as a person that backs this both.” The vocalist would later add, “”Most likely gonna be leaving SYSC because of an absence of urgency on points I’ve been mentioning for some time now. It was enjoyable whereas it lasted.”

Quickly after, Sgarbossa issued another post wherein she referred to the band in previous tense, telling followers, “I admire everybody reaching out. SYSC meant the world to me too. I have never absolutely processed what is going on on however I’m alive as of now.” The band later dropped off their European tour with Sgarbossa’s exit.